Submissive Guide
We are a podcast sharing BDSM articles from Submissive Guide. We believe education and shared knowledge are key to learning and exploring BDSM and D/s relationships.Since 2009, Submissive Guide's mission has been to provide down to earth educational BDSM content that can really help people learn and explore kink and D/s relationships in a healthy way. That is our continued goal.No matter where you are in your submissive journey, we'll be there.
Episodes
26 episodes
Exploring Online Submission: Truths, Risks, and Safety Tips | Submissive Guide
We’ll cover the complexities of online submission, offering various safe environments to explore and learn the nuances of BDSM and discuss the potential benefits and dangers. We’ll help you navigate the online BDSM landscape with confidence and...
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10 Things You Can Start Today To Be a Better Submissive | Submissive Guide
A question I see asked all the time is, "How can I be a better submissive?" Here are a few things you can do to improve your submission and service without much work.Resources -
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Creating a Safe Space: Enhancing Communication in D/s Relationships | Submissive Guide
Let's discuss how to build healthy communication skills in our D/s relationship and what a safe environment for difficult conversations looks like. I’ll give you the tools to develop a report with your partner that is full of trust, shared vuln...
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Navigating the Challenges of a Vanilla Partner in a Kink World | Submissive Guide
Often, we discover our desire to be submissive or kinky when we are already in a relationship and are not sure really how to proceed with that. Let’s cover what you should do to prepare to talk to your partner about your newfound interest, how ...
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Crafting Your Collaring Ceremony: Themes, Rituals, and Celebrations | Submissive Guide
Receiving your collar is a special occasion for many submissives and slaves. When a collar comes into view, some people want to commemorate that with a ceremony. Let’s discuss collars, their symbolism in D/s and M/s relationships, and how you c...
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The Truth About Topping from the Bottom | Submissive Guide
Let’s break down what topping from the bottom is, why it’s so bad, how it can be good, and learn some tricks to stop the poor behavior in its tracks that leads to it.Read the article:
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Every Good Conversation Starts with Active Listening | Submissive Guide
Communication is a key topic to developing and maintaining healthy, open relationships. But many of us need to learn what good communication looks like and have problems with at least one part of good communication techniques....
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Learning Good Observation Skills for Better Submissive Awareness | Submissive Guide
One of the best skills a submissive can learn is observation. Observation can also be neglected in your daily and work life, so learning requires you to reteach your mind, eyes, focus, and attention. It's so worth it.Read the article:
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What Everyone Ought to Know About Finding and Managing BDSM Limits | Submissive Guide
Your limits are unique to you and may change over time as you gain experience and self-awareness. Embrace the opportunity for self-discovery and pleasure as you unlock the secrets to understanding and embracing your BDSM limits.Read the...
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Moans, Groans, and Beyond: A Beginner’s Guide to Dirty Talk | Submissive Guide
Explore the journey of embracing dirty talk. With practical tips, personal stories, and valuable resources, readers are encouraged to break free from inhibitions and discover the liberating potential of vocalizing desires and fantasies.R...
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On-Demand Ecstasy: Initiating Your Orgasm Control Training | Submissive Guide
A beginner's guide that explores the practice of orgasm control and its potential for enhancing pleasure. The first in the series, this article covers the first steps to exploring orgasm control in your play.Resources on Orgasm Control M...
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The Importance of Rules and Structure in D/s Relationships | Submissive Guide
In D/s (Dominant/submissive) relationships, rules are often used to provide structure and establish boundaries within the power exchange dynamic. These rules serve as a guide for submissives to follow, which allows us to focus on our submission...
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How to Use Erotic Begging to Intensify Your Kinky Playtime | Submissive Guide
Being asked to beg for something is one of the simplest forms of erotic humiliation within a BDSM scenario. It’s also one that can be quite difficult for people to learn.Read the article on Submissive Guide:
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Expectations of a Collar: How Ready Are You to Accept One? | Submissive Guide
Wearing a Dominant’s collar is often a goal of any submissive in a D/s relationship. However, defining what a collar is and how you prepare to accept it can be daunting. Let’s tackle the important points about collars and if you are prepared fo...
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Seven Books I Recommend for Novice Submissives | Submissive Guide
I’ve gathered seven of the best books to help you get started on your exploration of BDSM and the submissive role. Read the Article:
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New to D/s Relationships? Here's Your Foolproof Guide to Starting Out | Submissive Guide
Relationships, even ones with power exchange, are built the old-fashioned way; dating, mutual compatibility, and communication. We all have a common ground to start from, even if we don't realize it. Unlike what many forums may say about D/s re...
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How to Identify Your Submissive Wants and Needs | Submissive Guide
Submissives all over seem to know what they want out of a relationship; it's always on their minds: the play, the sex, love, or the strictness of dominance. Wants are very valid to the happiness in your life, but more important are the needs. W...
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A Submissive's Prime Directive: Take Care of the Property | Submissive Guide
A Submissive’s primary focus should be taking care of the property. There are common ways we are not adhering to the prime directive, and there are ways we can make it more of a foundation for our lives. Read the Article:
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Myths About D/s Relationships: How to Break Them Down to Find the Truth of a Healthy D/s Dynamic | Submissive Guide
When people ask me what a D/s relationship is like, my first response is 'it looks like any other relationship,' but that's not entirely accurate. All relationships are unique and personal to the people in them, making a sound basis for any D/s...
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The Importance of Safety, Risk-Awareness and Consent in Pre-Scene BDSM | Submissive Guide
Negotiation and consent are the primary ways BDSM is distinguished from abuse - they are essential parts of kinky play. But far too many people gloss over how important it is to be really good at negotiating so that you can have great kinky fun...
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The Key Traits of a Service Submissive - They Can Be Learned! | Submissive Guide
Anyone can learn to be a good service submissive, even if you don't feel you are a people pleaser, because the key traits are all ones that can be learned and refined. When you take steps to improve yourself now, you'll be able to tackle a vari...
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Active Submission - Make Yourself Available to Your Dominant | Submissive Guide
We need to make sure we take an active role in submission to help open up the dynamic and not wait for our Dominant to come up with a command to give us. By taking on an active role in our submission, we not only have more opportunities to be s...
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Non-sexual Service and How To Add It To Your Dynamic | Submissive Guide
Using my experience as a service submissive, I'd like to share what non-sexual service is and help you figure out if service is something you want to explore. I'll talk about a few different styles of service you could learn. Then we'll cover h...
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A Beginner’s Guide to Sexual Power Exchange | Submissive Guide
Sexual Power Exchange involves submissive partners who willingly and voluntarily relinquish control to their dominant partners, either in certain situations, for a specified period of time, or completely. As long as you keep it fun and en...
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The Basic Tenets of Being a Submissive in a D/s Dynamic | Submissive Guide
If you’re brand new to BDSM or even if you’ve got a few years under your belt, it’s good to sit down and figure out what submission means for you and how it works in your dynamic. Once you know what you need as a submissive, you can work with y...
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